Episode 38

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29th Apr 2026

Being Strategic WITHOUT Knowing It All - How to Lead the Experts on Your Team

One of the most common things I hear from leaders is this: "I'm struggling to lead someone on my team because they know so much more about this subject than I do." I hear it from new managers. I hear it from senior executives. And every time, I have to tell them the same thing - that's not a leadership problem. That's a leadership fallacy.

The higher you go, the more you will be leading people who know more than you about their specific domain. That is not a weakness. That is the job. And once you understand what your role actually is in that dynamic, everything changes.

In this episode, I first take you inside a real coaching session with a leader who was asked to moderate a panel of subject matter experts - and was terrified she wasn't expert enough to pull it off. Then I'm going to show you how the exact same principle applies to leading technical people on your own team.

In this episode you'll discover:

The Expert Fallacy -- Why believing you need to know more than your team is not humility, it's actually getting in the way of your leadership and theirs.

The Ultimate Audience Member -- The reframe that instantly takes the pressure off any panel, presentation, or senior meeting where everyone else seems to know more than you do.

The Detective Approach -- How to engage subject matter experts with curiosity-driven questions that build your strategic presence, earn their respect, and surface blind spots they didn't even know they had.

Your challenge this week: Find one subject matter expert in your world -- on your team, a peer, or even someone above you -- and invite them to coffee. Ask them to walk you through what they do. Then get curious. Ask the basic questions. Ask the ones that seem obvious. Because that's where your leadership value lives, not in having the answers, but in asking the questions nobody else thought to ask.

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About the Podcast

Leadership Mindset 2.0
Transform From Tactical Doer to Strategic Leader: The Psychology of Scaling for Executives & Entrepreneurs
Leadership Mindset 2.0 is the definitive playbook for executives and entrepreneurs ready to break free from the "Doer Trap" and scale their business using psychology and strategy.

Host R. Michael Anderson has scaled multiple software companies to the Inc. 5000 list and was named Social Entrepreneur of the Year. Now, as a 2x Executive Coach of the Year, he uses that experience to help high-performers transform from Tactical Operators into Strategic Leaders.

In this podcast, Michael blends cutting-edge neuroscience, emotional intelligence (EQ), and battle-tested business strategy to help you overcome burnout, imposter syndrome, and the "Leadership Incompetence Trap" so you can lead with clarity and confidence.

Two New Episodes Every Week which include a mix of:
• Strategy: Neuroscience frameworks & leadership tactics to start your week.
• Mentorship: Live Q&A and specific answers to your leadership challenges.
• Coaching: A fly-on-the-wall look at real, unscripted executive coaching sessions as Michael helps leaders break through their blind spots live.
• Masterclasses: Listen in as Michael and guests teach valuable leadership and management skills to a real-life audience.

Topics include: The Psychology of Scaling, Burnout Prevention, Strategic Planning, Executive Coaching, and Emotional Intelligence.

About your host

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R. Michael Anderson

R. Michael Anderson, MBA, MA has a striking combination that creates truly impactful transformation in leaders – he has the real-life business success of founding, scaling and exiting three software companies, plus the educational background of a Masters Degree in Psychology.



This combination gives him the unique ability to connect to other leaders as a peer, then teaches evidence-based leadership skills that genuinely drive behaviour and performance.